instance, I flashed onto how I wanted to do some chest-bumping about who was right (Power Over); then I went Power Under, trying to back out of the interaction. When that was unsuccessful, I took a break. After the meeting, I went through my list of ways to shift back Above the Line to get out of Reactive Brain: Breathe deeply, Tell a new story, Play with my personas that were triggered, Move my body, Sing out loud, Ask for help from unseen beings. It’s a good, robust list —but nothing really worked! Then I talked to my great friend, Julianna.